谦虚的资格
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谦虚有很多种，真正的谦虚，不是谁都有资格享有它的。
胸无大志的人，即使极诚恳地说：“我这人没什么志向。”这不叫谦虚，只能叫坦率，这种坦率有时让人觉着是在叹息；
毫无才学的人，即使极认真地说：“我这人没什么本事。”这不叫谦虚，只能叫实在，这种实在有时让人觉着是在自责；
主席台上，正式发言之前来一句：“我水平有限。”这不叫谦虚，只能叫客套，这种客套给人感觉是一种身份的炫耀；
辨论场上，笑应对手一句：“我的意见可能不太成熟。”这不叫谦虚，只能叫挑战，这种挑战是一种以退为进的宣示：
机遇面前犹豫不决、左右为难地嗫嚅：“我不知道该怎么办。”这不叫谦虚，只能叫哀鸣，这种哀鸣除了显示无能力以外，便是在患得患失间不知所措；
困境之中难做决断，跌倒后爬起乱了方寸：“看来我是真的顶不住了。”这不叫谦虚，只能叫无奈，这种无奈表明了穷途末路的到来。
谦虚需要一种底气来支撑。
聪慧是智者的底气。智者的聪慧在于能从聪慧中看到局限和缺欠，他的和气中透出低调，和颜中多有雅量。
善良是仁者的底气。仁者的善良是能容下无端的伤害和浅陋的狂妄，他的谦卑融于忍耐之中，他的虚怀嵌入慈悲之间。
博大是强者的底气。强者的博大是能让对手心悦诚服地拥戴和情不自禁地敬仰。
谦虚的人，因为看得透，所以不躁；因为想得远，所以不妄；因为站得高，所以不傲；因为行得正，所以不惧。
这样的人，才称得上是谦虚的人。
There are many humble, truly humble, not who are eligible for it.
No ambition, if even a very sincerely: "I no aspirations of these people." This is not called modesty, can only be called a frank, candid and sometimes that is pleasant for people to sigh;
Without knowledge, people, even very serious, said: "I am the man no ability." This is not called modesty, can only call it, this is sometimes pleasant for people in self-blame;
On the rostrum, before speaking to an official: "I is limited." This is not called modesty, can only call out of courtesy, giving the impression that civility is a status display;
Debate on the floor, should rival a laugh: "My views may not be mature." This is not called modesty, can only be called the challenge, the challenge is a kind of retreat that:
Opportunity in front of hesitant and difficult to softly: "I do not know how to do." This is not called modesty, can only call whine, whine apart showed no such capability, is to hesitate between the loss;
Predicament difficult decision, fell after the meat is a loss: "I think I really could not stand up." This is not called modesty, can only be called frustration, that frustration that the arrival of a dead end.
Modest needs a lung power to support.
Intelligence is a wise man lung power. Wise man is intelligent and can see the limitations and shortcomings of intelligence, his kind of revealed a low-key, and the Yen in more than a magnanimity.
Kind of lung power is benevolent. Benevolent kindness is to only put gratuitous damage and shallow arrogance, his humility and into the patient, and that he's minded embedded between compassion.
Broad is the strong lung power. The broad is a strong rival to win the wholehearted support and lets not help but admire.
Modest, because could thoroughly understand, so I do not impatient; because we wanted to get away, so do not jump; as highly elevated, it is not proud; as done nothing wrong, so afraid.
Such people can be called a humble person.
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